Dating a woman going through a nasty divorce
He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.
You will still have to deal with all the issues that caused the breakup of your marriage and make peace with the fact that it's really over.
So what should you do if you believe that this new man is the one you should have married in the first place?
Make life easier on you and him both by postponing the relationship until the divorce is finalized.
You will most likely have ongoing contact with your husband after the divorce because of the children.
Dating during divorce can poison the spirit of cooperation and affect your life for a long time after the divorce is final (and possibly after your boyfriend is history).