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Ultimately, he stopped blaming his wife for their problems. "We're given a binary model," says New York psychotherapist Ken Page. People need a better set of options." Sooner or later, there comes a moment in all relationships when you lie in bed, roll over, look at the person next to you and think it's all a dreadful mistake, says Boston family therapist Terrence Real. "It's an open secret of American culture that disillusionment exists.
I go around the country speaking about 'normal marital hatred.' Not one person has ever asked what I mean by that.
Eclipsed by Expectations What's most noticeable about Sarah and Mark Holdt of Estes Park, Colorado, is their many differences. So Mark heads off to church and Bible study every week, while Sarah takes a "Journeys" class that considers topics like the history of God in America."She just didn't appreciate all I was doing to make her happy." He fed the babies, and he changed their diapers.He gave them their baths, he read them stories, and put them to bed.A new view of relationships and their discontents is emerging.We alone are responsible for having the relationship we want.