Or, way worse, the dude who once "ordered" me to go find a woman for us to have sex with at the bar where we were having a drink."Go up to that girl and finger her," he suggested. And second, it's not really that easy for me to just go get a girl to have sex with us.It's a pretty involved procedure that in my experience involves the use of the Internet at the very least.Like the dude I dated in college who insisted I travel the hour-and-a-half train ride to his Jersey town in pigtails ("the high-up kind," he actually specified) and no bra supporting my DD breasts.He didn't believe me when I assured him this would in no way be a sexy look.Here are some of the unique ways to be an asshole in the realm of sexual dominance and submission.Don't try to dominate me like, while we're like, out at the bar.
What you can not do ever ever ever is call me "fat" or a "pig" or imply that I or any parts of my body are in any way unattractive. Don't tell me all about the other girls you're fucking. Just because we're having fucked-up casual sex doesn't mean I want to hear erotic details of your other conquests any more than a vanilla woman you're sleeping with.
I may be submissive in the bedroom, but I'm anything but in my everyday life.
There are lots of dominant men who fully embrace and understand this dichotomy but there are some who seem to think that my sexual proclivities mean they should be able to boss me around in any given social situation.
Being dominant is not just an excuse to be sexually selfish. Back in my Craigslist ads, I would often post looking for a "true breast fetishist" who was interested in extended breast play sessions.
I was looking for dudes who truly fetishized breasts and would be happy to spend a good hour just groping, grabbing and manhandling them with only the possibility of mutual masturbation in return. But what I quickly found is that pretty much any guy will respond to an ad like that, figuring "Hey, I like boobs," and hoping that they'll ultimately get laid.
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I consider myself to err on the side of sexual submission.